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This is a record of my life from the day I started my treatments for stage 3c cancer.

Friday, June 02, 2006

A New Beginning

Ros here. Thanks all for making xiaodoudou's funeral a grand affair. Your attendance was great comfort to us. Would also like to extend my gratitude to all who stayed overnight.

Her new address is at :
5 Poh Huat Road
All Saints Memorial Chapel
Blk 2 Room 6 Unit 27
Visiting hours from 7am to 7pm daily

Tis 7th day. Bought her favorite tulips and chocs. No sign of her returning. She must be busy playing with the angels above.

Right now I wonder "Would you know my name, if I saw u in heaven. I must be strong, and carry on...And I know there'll be no more, Tears in heaven"

21 Comments:

At June 02, 2006 4:48 PM, Blogger Jojo Tan said...

u are strong Ros! she made it this long becos u were with her all along, u didnt give up on her. and im proud of the connection both of u have. She's happier where she is now, because of the sufferings that has disappeared physically. We shld be happi for her.....

 
At June 02, 2006 5:06 PM, Blogger patpat said...

u be strong strong.. cuz Jie Jie is very happy ! we will see her in time to come. & of cuz she will knw u . She forget me she also will remb u. & theres not 1% of a chance she's gonna forget me

 
At June 02, 2006 5:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

JM is happily touring the happy garden!

:D

I wonder if jiemei find my cutiee flowers nice..

 
At June 02, 2006 9:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ros!

I agree with the others, you are really strong. And I must say that you are the greatest support she ever have during the times. I'm sure she's happy and she wants you to be happy as well.

:D

 
At June 03, 2006 3:28 PM, Blogger Blue Scorpion said...

You are amazing, Ros. She will take care, so must you. - Luv, bubbs.

 
At June 04, 2006 1:51 AM, Blogger Unforgiven28 said...

An angel like her belongs to Heaven. Do not be sad because she is gone. She is not for she is always in the heart of the people who matter to her. be glad for once your path has crossed

 
At June 04, 2006 1:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

She will miss u as she say..she is now an angel, living in heaven..no longer bind by the pain she have to endure during all this time..she have been so brave..so proud of her..even if i dun no her..N Ros, u nv let go of her..she sure have been blissful..take care..she will always be watching..Take Care angel..we miss u

 
At June 04, 2006 9:27 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Ros,

i cant even imagine how you are feeling now. the pain must be undescribable. Reading this blog makes me wanna treasure my loved ones even more. Do be strong ya =)*HUGS*

 
At June 04, 2006 10:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.PSALM 23 verse 4

Surely the goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,
and i will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. PSALM 23 verse 6

 
At June 04, 2006 11:01 PM, Blogger Marisa said...

Such courage for a young girl like her.

May the Lord bless her soul.

 
At June 05, 2006 10:56 AM, Blogger MNG said...

I chanced upon Docile's blog today and read thru all her posts...She was indeed a very strong and determined girl....

She was fortunate to have such a loving family and partner and I believed these were the reason she made it until the very end.

 
At June 06, 2006 10:50 AM, Blogger alamakong91 said...

I think she is a brave girl. She has certainly inspired me to treasure what I have right now. Even though I don't know her, I can somehow feel that she is very positive about life and I hope everyone around can also be like that. I guess she will be really happy up there with all the angels! :)

 
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At June 25, 2006 3:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ashamed!

I read xiaodoudou's blog again & again. I felt so ashamed of myself. Really.

There she is trying & fighting so hard against her cancer cell, hoping to live longer. Despite being sick, she still live her life to the fullest. Dressing up nicely to go out, eat & do whatever she likes.

But here i am, always complaining how fat am i, how ugly am i, how un-satisfied am i? And keep trying to go on diet but always fail? Keep wanna do something but always no actions? Wanting to go out but always lazy to do so... Shame on me! Everyone should cherish life and health. Health is most important. Cos when you fall sick, it's not only you, your close ones will have to suffer with you too.

From today onwards, i will take good care of myself. Seriously.

Guys, pls read her blog when ya free. Learn from her courage to face problems & 'never give up' spirit!

Yesterday i think alot people 'died'.

 
At June 25, 2006 3:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

spent the whole day reading a frd's frd's frd's blog..
she's 25 and she has ovarian cancer..
in it...there are details of how she lived her life since she learnt of her illness..
thats sad..
however, she has her perfect partner, a happy family to care for her..
how fragile life can be..
how things can change so fast...
her blog is a happy one, very optimistic, she has no qualms about posting her photos n stuff...
lets pray for her yea..

 
At June 25, 2006 4:08 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I’m sorry to hear that she has lost her battle in cancer and has departed the world last week. Just by reading all her previous entries makes me really touched and emotional. And it is very heartwarming to read about how supportive her family and friends are.

Also, here’s something she mentioned in her blog makes me feel so touched reading it.

She said:

Came across two couples, think one couple broke up and the other couple is in disagreement. Ros always say whenever she sees couples quarrelling, she wanna walk over and kok their heads. Shout at them to tell them how silly they are wasting precious time disagreeing with each other. The two of us wanna spend a lifetime together but we might not have the luxury. She has to cope with the fear of losing me any day. Even before I got cancer, we hardly ever had a disagreement, not even quarrel. Its simply all about love and acting out of love.

It’s certainly inspiring and touching. Now I finally understand how fortunate I am.

 
At June 25, 2006 4:08 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I’m sorry to hear that she has lost her battle in cancer and has departed the world last week. Just by reading all her previous entries makes me really touched and emotional. And it is very heartwarming to read about how supportive her family and friends are.

Also, here’s something she mentioned in her blog makes me feel so touched reading it.

She said:

Came across two couples, think one couple broke up and the other couple is in disagreement. Ros always say whenever she sees couples quarrelling, she wanna walk over and kok their heads. Shout at them to tell them how silly they are wasting precious time disagreeing with each other. The two of us wanna spend a lifetime together but we might not have the luxury. She has to cope with the fear of losing me any day. Even before I got cancer, we hardly ever had a disagreement, not even quarrel. Its simply all about love and acting out of love.

It’s certainly inspiring and touching. Now I finally understand how fortunate I am.

 
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